With so many things going on in our life, it is easy to forget to take care of ourselves. 

As moms, we are busy taking care of our children, as spouses we are prioritizing our significant others, as employees or business owners we focus on the tasks that need to be accomplished, and as students we stress about studying and getting good grades.

Somewhere in the middle of all of that, we need to find time to unwind, relax and have some fun!

With these 60+ ways to treat yourself, you are sure to find something you will enjoy. Remember, you cannot take care of others when you are running on empty.

1. Spend Time In The Word – Spending time with God is always something that will bring joy and comfort. It fills our soul and replenishes us with what need the most. So, take the time to just yourself and God to slow down and enjoy the peacefulness.

2. Create A Spa Day At Home – There’s nothing like a spa day at home. Create the ultimate relaxation by putting on a mask, lighting a candle, running a bath, and pampering yourself to the fullest.

3. Do Some Journaling – Journaling is a good way to get your thoughts out, to process what you’re going through or to just create a fun memory. It is very therapeutic to journal so if you don’t have one, pick one up and so some journaling.

4. Take A Bubble Bath – Make yourself a relaxing bath with salts and have a nice soak. Include bubbles if you’re feeling like you need some extra self care.

5. Read A Good Book – Have a book you have been wanting to read? Go to the bookstore and pick out a book and then spend some time reading it. Getting lost in a book is one of the best ways to have some time to yourself.

6. Create A Vision Board – Taking the time to envision your life and goals is a treat not only for the day but for your future. Make a vision board that have quotes, pictures and whatever else that inspires you and helps you to achieve where you want to be.

7. Hang Out With Your Favorite People – There’s nothing like hanging out with your favorite person. Whether you tell your spouse you want to spend the evening with them or reach out to a friend for a hangout, make it a point to spend quality time with someone you enjoy being with.

8. Cozy Up With A Good Cup Of Tea/Hot Chocolate/Coffee – A good cup of hot something is warming for the soul so make a special treat with all the extras (froth it up and do all the layers).

9. Sleep In – Take time for rest and recharge. Allow yourself to sleep in for some extra hours to rejuvenate and start the day feeling refreshed.

10. Do A Fun Craft – Engage in a creative activity that brings joy, whether it’s painting, knitting, or DIY projects. Crafting allows for self-expression and relaxation. It’s also a great option for a girl’s night get together.

11. Game Night With The Family – Spend quality time with loved ones through fun games. Enjoy laughter and bonding moments while playing board games together.

12. Get A Facial – Pamper your skin with a facial treatment to cleanse, exfoliate, and rejuvenate. It’s a relaxing way to care for your skin and unwind.

13. Get A Pedicure or Manicure – Treat yourself to a salon visit or a DIY session for well-groomed hands or feet. It’s a self-care ritual that promotes relaxation and boosts confidence.

14. Put On Makeup – Experiment with makeup, try new looks, or simply enjoy the process of enhancing your features. Makeup can be a form of self-expression and a way to feel empowered and confident.

15. Get A Haircut/Blowout – Treat yourself to a salon visit for a fresh haircut or a professional blowout. A new hairstyle can uplift spirits and boost confidence, giving a renewed sense of self.

16. Get A Massage – Indulge in a massage session to release tension and promote relaxation. It’s a soothing way to alleviate stress and enhance overall well-being.

17. Turn On The Essential Oil Diffuser – Create a calming atmosphere by using an essential oil diffuser. Scents like lavender or eucalyptus can promote relaxation, reduce anxiety, and improve mood.

18. Do A Full Skincare Routine – Dedicate time to a comprehensive skincare regimen, cleansing, toning, moisturizing, and applying treatments. It’s a self-care ritual that nurtures your skin and promotes a healthy glow.

19. Watch A Funny Movie – Unwind with a comedy movie that brings laughter and joy. Laughter is therapeutic, providing a natural mood boost and a break from daily stressors.

20. Listen To A Motivational Speech – Listen to an inspiring or motivational speech. It can uplift your spirits, provide encouragement, and spark a sense of motivation and positivity.

21. Put On An Inspiring Podcast – Tune into an inspiring podcast that discusses personal growth, success stories, or motivational topics. It’s an opportunity to gain valuable insights and a dose of inspiration for your day.

22. Head Over To A Book Store – Spend time exploring a bookstore, browsing through various genres. Engaging with books nurtures the mind and allows for self-reflection or a plunge into exciting stories.

23. Learn A Skill You’ve Always Wanted To Know – Dedicate time to learning something new, whether it’s a language, cooking, or a musical instrument. Cultivating new skills enhances self-esteem and opens doors to personal growth.

24. Spend Time Doing Your Favorite Hobby – Spend time on your favorite hobby, whether it’s gardening, crafting, or photography. Engaging in hobbies fosters joy, reduces stress, and promotes a sense of accomplishment.

25. Create A Painting – Express yourself through art by creating a painting or engaging in any form of artistic creation. Art provides an outlet for emotions and encourages creativity.

26. Light A Candle or Lights – Light scented candles or decorative lights to create a cozy and relaxing ambiance.

27. Get Away For The Weekend – Plan a brief escape for the weekend, exploring a new destination or indulging in a retreat. A change of scenery rejuvenates the mind and offers a refreshing break.

28. Explore Your City – Spend a day exploring your city, discovering new neighborhoods, landmarks, or hidden gems. Exploring your surroundings sparks curiosity and a sense of adventure.

29. Go For A Walk – Take a leisurely stroll outdoors, relishing the fresh air and nature’s beauty. Walking promotes relaxation, reduces stress, and boosts mood.

30. Get A Delicious Treat – Treat yourself to something delicious, whether it’s your favorite dessert, a gourmet snack, or a comforting meal. Enjoying tasty treats is a simple pleasure that brings instant joy.

31. Make Your Bed Super Comfortable – Make your bed a sanctuary by adding extra pillows, soft blankets, and fresh linens. A comfortable bed promotes better sleep and a sense of relaxation.

32. Buy A New Outfit – Spruce up your wardrobe with a new outfit that makes you feel confident and stylish. Dressing well can uplift mood and boost self-esteem.

33. Listen To Good Music – Listen to your favorite tunes or discover new music. Music has the power to evoke emotions, uplift spirits, and create a positive atmosphere.

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You cannot take care of others when you are running on empty.

34. Go To The Beach – Head to the beach for a relaxing day by the shore. The calming sound of waves and the beauty of the ocean can provide tranquility and peace of mind.

35. Do The Project You Don’t Have Time For – Dedicate time to that lingering project you’ve wanted to finish. Accomplishing tasks gives a sense of fulfillment and reduces stress.

36. Go For A Drive With Windows Open – Take a scenic drive with the windows down, letting the wind blow away any worries. Driving offers a sense of freedom and a chance to clear the mind.

37. Sign Up For A Class – Sign up for a class or workshop that interests you. Learning new things stimulates the brain and brings a sense of achievement.

38. Learn A New Language – Begin learning a new language. It broadens horizons, improves cognitive abilities, and opens doors to new cultures.

39. Organize Your Space – Organize your living or working space with better systems. A tidy environment reduces stress and increases productivity.

40. Declutter – Continue decluttering, focusing on specific areas like closets, cabinets, or drawers. Clearing out unused items creates a more organized and serene space.

41. Rearrange Your Furniture – Change up your space by rearranging furniture. A fresh layout can bring new energy and revitalization to your surroundings.

42. Unplug From Technology – Unplug from technology for a while. Disconnecting from screens allows for relaxation, reduces stress, and fosters a sense of mindfulness.

43. Fill Up A Notebook With Verses and Quotes – Fill a notebook with favorite verses, quotes, or personal affirmations. This collection serves as a source of inspiration and motivation.

44. Create An Album Of Memories – Create an album or scrapbook filled with cherished memories, photos, and memorabilia. Revisiting these moments evokes happiness and gratitude.

45. Make A Bucket List – Craft a bucket list of things you aspire to do or experience. Setting goals ignites excitement and encourages personal growth.

46. Buy Something New – Splurge on something new, whether it’s a small luxury item or something you’ve had your eye on. Treating yourself occasionally boosts happiness.

47. Baking Adventure – Try a new dessert recipe, allowing your culinary skills to shine. Baking brings joy and the delightful aroma of homemade treats.

48. Try A New Restaurant – Dine at a new restaurant or try a different cuisine. Exploring new flavors adds excitement to your palate.

49. Clean Up Your Car – Dedicate time to clean and organize your car. A tidy car offers a more pleasant driving experience and makes you feel better about your space.

50. Splurge On A Beauty Product – Treat yourself to a luxurious beauty product you’ve been eyeing. A little pampering enhances self-care routines.

51. Attend A Free Event – Doing something fun doesn’t have to cost something. Explore free events in your area, from art exhibits to community gatherings. These events offer entertainment without breaking the bank and you might make some new friends.

52. Buy Yourself Flowers – Buy yourself a bouquet of fresh flowers. Their beauty and fragrance bring a touch of happiness to any space.

53. Have A Picnic – Organize a picnic outing, enjoying delicious food and the outdoors with friends or on your own. Picnics offer relaxation and a chance to unwind in nature’s embrace.

54. Pass Time At A Coffee Shop – Spend time at a cozy coffee shop, savoring a cup of your favorite brew. It’s a perfect place to unwind, read, or simply enjoy the ambiance.

55. Dress Up And Go Somewhere Fancy – Dress up and visit a fancy restaurant or venue. Embracing elegance and style adds a touch of glamour to your day.

56. Watch The Sunrise/Sunset – Watch the sunrise or sunset, embracing the beauty and tranquility of nature’s transition. It’s a serene and breathtaking experience.

57. Plant Something – Get your hands dirty and plant something, whether it’s flowers, a tree, or vegetables. Gardening fosters a connection with nature and provides a sense of accomplishment.

58. Start An Herb Garden – Begin an herb garden, nurturing plants that can add flavor to your meals. It’s a rewarding and practical way to connect with nature and improve cooking.

59. Work Out/ Do Stretches – Engage in a workout session or do stretching exercises. Physical activity releases endorphins, boosting mood and promoting well-being.

60. Let The Sun Shine On You – Bask in the sunlight, allowing its warmth to rejuvenate and uplift your spirits. Sunlight exposure boosts vitamin D levels and positively impacts mood.

61. Do A Random Act Of Kindness – Spread positivity by performing a random act of kindness. It could be as simple as complimenting someone, paying for a stranger’s coffee, or volunteering your time to help someone in need. Acts of kindness not only brighten someone else’s day but also fill your own heart with joy and fulfillment.

What are your favorite ways to relax and treat yourself?